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    b.c.b.c Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 15, 2011, 07:02 PM
    Should I want to be adopted?
    Sometimes I feel like my parents don't love me. My brother and I always fight and I always get blamed and sent to my room even when I am 14.

    And I don't know if my life would be better if I was adopted, as much as I have my concerns in wanting to be adopted I would never have the guts to really tell my parents, even when I tell my mom she thinks I am lying and that she doesn't believe me.

    What should I do?
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    Jan 15, 2011, 07:29 PM

    No, you cannot get adopted. Your parents would have to give you up. I'm guessing they won't do that.

    Let's go to the real problem. Why do you and your brother fight? Is there a way to reduce or stop that?
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    Jan 15, 2011, 07:57 PM

    You need to learn how to be happy where you are.

    And of course 14 year old children get grounded and sent to their rooms, if there are reasons. So will 16 and 17 year old.
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    Feb 14, 2011, 06:18 PM
    Well,I think you better be happy as you got a family and a brother you can fight with... above all this,am sure yer family loves you so much... I never knew my parents and do not know if I got brother or sisters somewhere in this world... I wish having a brother with who I could fight with --a mother who sends me to my bedroom when she s angry with me -maybe she feels you safe in yer bedroom -in thinking that yer brother is not sweet enough to play with you.. if they kept you until the age you are now,it means they Love u... do not make mistakes with bad thoughts okay? Take care
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