I absolutely agree with the above.
For any relationship, if there is no trust, there is nothing. Him being so secretive about his real life, is cause for alarm bells.
The restraining order, if it is against his ex, why should that stop you from going to his home?
That he has not shown you who he is, means he is keeping you a secret, too.
It seems convenient for him to have you once a week, and the ring signifies nothing more than a bribe. Don't fall for it.
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