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    Jan 11, 2007, 11:31 PM
    The "Question," and Self Conciuosness
    Hi,
    I'm 13 years old (almost 14) and I masterbate occasionally.
    However, nothing comes out.
    And my penis is 2 inches long in a non erect state.
    I check every once in a while to see if anything will come out, but so far I've had no luck.
    It bothers me that if a girl asked the "question" I could not say yes.
    I am a pretty popular kid so it's come up once or twice.
    I wish I could have said yes because those girls were goreous!
    Don't worry they were my girlfriends and all.
    But I am still very self conscious.
    Is all this normal?
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    Jan 12, 2007, 07:58 AM
    First of all, you are only 13, so you are WAY too young for sex. Because "nothing" comes out now, does not mean it will not in the future.

    Now, remember, when you are thinking about having sex with one of these "girlfriends" you must also think about being a father. That is what sex is for, procreation.

    If you are not ready to be a father, you are not ready for sex.
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    Jan 12, 2007, 08:20 AM
    At the risk of branding myself as an old fogey - What's "the question"?
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    Jan 12, 2007, 08:24 AM
    I'm risking the branding too Scott. I think it is "Do you want to have sex?"
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    Jan 12, 2007, 09:09 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9
    I'm risking the branding too Scott. I think it is "Do you want to have sex?"
    That would seem to be logical. But if so, I was born too soon. The girls are asking now?
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    Jan 12, 2007, 09:14 AM
    Yep... and asking for a lot more then when I was in school.
    I have a friend that teaches PE at a middle school not to far from where I live.
    They had to close the boys and girls bathrooms on the second floor of the school because (and I swear to God I am not lying) they would go into the bathroom and play poker. What did the winner "win"? Oral pleasure from the opposite sex.
    MIDDLE SCHOOL (11-14 year olds). Scary huh?
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    Jan 12, 2007, 09:39 AM
    OK I want a start over. I want to be 14 again, but in this day and age <eg>
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    Jan 12, 2007, 09:41 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Tuscany
    MIDDLE SCHOOL (11-14 year olds). Scary huh?
    To say the least!
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    Jan 12, 2007, 10:21 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ScottGem
    OK I want a start over. I wanna be 14 again, but in this day and age <eg>
    My husband says the same thing!!
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    Jan 21, 2007, 09:39 AM
    Back to the question at hand , trust me you all don't want to be 14 again especially some of the things I saw while I was at school a 6 years back .

    Anyway hey there Ninja , I know that guys your age start to worry about things like that and yeah its all part of growing up , but instead of thinking girls can't you think for school like sports and that .Girls can wait a few years if they ask the question just say " ive got more interesting things to do" like your sports or that.But if you don't like sports fair enough you could join clubs and that in your school surely?

    Ive got a little brother the same as you , same age and problems but all he does is talk to girls go out , but no more .If you want to be with a girl don't have sex its illegal and you could get into heaps of trouble.

    Trust me it can be worth the wait and your body is still growning too let it grow boy and You can do all you want later in your teen years for now be good and enjoy you life like get out there with friends and that , don't worry about sex or that until later

    Good luck

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