Originally Posted by
jennymyluv
Guys are frustrating....and its so hard to read them....): YOu know..i suggest flirting in an almost cute and innocent kind of way....(it works for me) ask em....so when do i get to meet you...? or me n my girlfriends are going (blah blah) do you want to join us...? Sometimes, we as girls know that he's not interested and some weird thing within us tells us that he is....Dont set ur self up..... LOok for that guy that gives you the attention that you need and deserve... YOu'll know when he's into you.... To get him into you...i suggest developing charm.... (my secret) (: Good luck.... P.S. Sometimes chasing them makes them withdraw from U ): i dont recommend that!!!! Make them chase U....(:
fyi... I'm a guy, and girls are just as frustrating if not more! :)
But jennymyluv brings up many good points. Have you ever discussed meeting? If he doesn't want to meet like jennymyluv suggests or similar (make sure it's public, for safety reasons), forget about him being into you. Do you have his picture? If he won't give you one, forget about meeting him.
Talking to people online has one drawback... you can't type facial expressions, gestures, and tone of voice. And don't try too hard "chasing" him. There are lots of other guys in the world so don't get too pent up about this one. Especially if he has no intention of ever meeting you face to face
Good luck and stay safe.