Motivation
This question is very similar to the question "How do I motivate someone?" But, at the same time, very different.
I've always heard the adage, "Don't try to change your man." My boyfriend, who is also a musician, has trouble motivating himself in every area of his life. I had to take a break from him just so that he would find a job. He found a part-time job at Walmart but he doesn't seem happy with it at all. He tells me that he wants to find a better job, lose weight, and move out of his house but it doesn't seem like he is motivated. I try to lead by example by eating healthy, exercising, actively looking for jobs, and going to school. He does have a lot of obstacles, including: shortage of funds, horrible transportation, and bad work schedule. I try to be understanding. But, it has gotten to the point where I don't know what to do anymore.
What should I do in order to motivate him?:confused:
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