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chr17 · Dec 13, 2010, 09:53 AM

My ex and I have been talking for awhile about getting back together. We broke up mutually about a year ago due to some undescribed issues. Nothing that was harmful emotionally or physical to either of us. But we bothe decided to get to know each other better as people so that it'll work better. But he's so hard to read! I don't usually have this problem in guys, and I really adore him. I just don't know what to do. We've been talking all school year, meeting up after some classes and what not, nothing too personal, but lately he'll see me and just start talking to another person, as if he doesn't want me to stop by and talk. He'll go right into his class rather then wait for me. Like today, he didn't say anything to me when we were going to class, just looked and me and walked away. That's it. So I'm taking it as a hint to back off. Should I ?

kctiger · Dec 13, 2010, 09:57 AM

Take it as a hint that his feelings don't mesh with yours, and the so called reconciliation of this relationship isn't a priority for him. Better communication on the part of both of you would also help resolve any questions you may have as to what his intentions are, and what yours are as well. You said you two are in school, may I ask what age you both are?

chr17 · Dec 13, 2010, 10:42 AM

We're both 17

answerme_tender · Dec 13, 2010, 10:54 AM

Chr17,

I think your instincts are pretty correct. I wouldn't waste anymore time on worring about if he does or doesn't want to get back together. Just smile politely at him when you pass him, but don't even bother to stop, just keeping walking. Good luck

talaniman · Dec 13, 2010, 05:46 PM

You seem to be having a hard time in your relationships,

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And this one ain't seeming to work out either. I would certainly leave the ex alone, and not press for anything with him at all. Take it as for whatever reason he isn't eager to renew the past. Leave it alone. Maybe you should have a proper healing from the other guy, and focus on you for a while, and look forward, not back!

You don't want a rebound thing with an ex do you? Find out what would motivate you to renew something with an ex in the first place.