[jennyitb]

I ve been with my boyfriend for about a year now. We moved in together right away everything was great the first couple of months and so. But then I realized I moved to a town where I don't know anyone. All my friends live 2 hours of more away from me.So its been really hard adjusting to this. On new years I got really drunk and saw him talking to his ex girlfriend got really upset decided to break up with him. Cause I was drunk and mad I ended up living with one of his friends and didn't see him till the next day. He had turned his phone off when all I wanted to do was talk to him. This pass week has been hell we been fighting every day . I can't stop crying and he doesn't seem to care anymore. I feel from doing what I did on new years he been a lot different to me. I thought maybe giving him some space to go with his friends this weekend to Maine would help things to get space. But got so upset cause he never called to say goodnight to me when he was miles away from me. I went to RI to c my friends to make myself better and ended up having a horrible time. So I was hoping to hear from him to get some comforting. When I had text messgage him and told him. I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore. But, I feel lost without him. Im now sitting here writing this waiting for him to get home to c me. When he had told me he was going to be here a long time ago he was still chillen with his friends. So I freaked out on him on the phone and been pretty much freaking out all week. I feel like I'm going to lose him . All I wanted was to spend Sunday with him . Cause I have to work all week and we have different sheds so we don't get to spend much time together anymore. But I feel like he doesn't want to by the way he been acting.my friends tell me I need space but its hard 2 do when all your family and friends live so far away . I'm losing my mind I can't stop crying getting upset somebody help, I'm afraid if I continue to act like this he going to break up with me . But its so hard when you feel like they don't want to be around you so I don't know help!:confused:

[chuff]

Well I agree with your friends. You both are so upset that you both need time apart so that you can calm down and approach this in a demeanor where your not going to get upset. You don’t really give a lot of back ground about talking to his ex, I mean it may not have been a big deal at all and if that was the case I can certainly understand his feeling that he might not feel like he’s trusted by you. If he was talking trying to get back with her then I’d say your did the right thing. But you don’t really go into that so it’s hard to say.

[talaniman]

I don't blame him for being mad at you for being drunk and starting trouble. He just wants you to think about it and he needs to be sure it won't ever happen again. Who wants to be with a trouble making drunk?