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    darkfunky Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 21, 2010, 02:19 AM
    Very strange Situation
    I met that girl 2 weeks ago , we both work in an international organization and she just came to my city , there is a lot of guys around that girl helping her out and showing her around , one day in a bar I made a move no one noticed and since then we kiss and we had sex once , and we are kind of together in a discreet relationship no one knows ,
    Anyway no the problem is is that when she wants to kiss she acts nice and touchy and I get to kiss her when I want to kiss her or have sex with her she acts hard or say that she is tierd or afraid of anyone to see us
    And this really pisses me off
    What do you guys think I should do?
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    Dec 8, 2010, 11:43 AM
    Well, I've been in a relationship kind of like that without the sex. Is it more like when your alone, everythings fine, your like a couple ? But when people are near by she doesn't want anymore then casual conversation ?
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    Dec 8, 2010, 03:22 PM
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    She enjoys its it working very good right now thanks dear people around us started to know and its fne with us ;)
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    Dec 8, 2010, 03:23 PM
    Seems pretty clear that she wants to keep everything a secret. If you can't have honest and open communication, then this relationship isn't going anywhere.

    Talk to her about your concerns and see what she thinks, but it doesn't sound like she's looking for anything serious.
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    Dec 8, 2010, 03:48 PM

    If you can handle having casual sex with someone who wants no public appearance of a relationship, then this is perfect. If you can't, you'd be best to get of the situation.
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    Dec 8, 2010, 05:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by darkfunky View Post
    anyway no the problem is is that when she wants to kiss she acts nice and touchy and i get to kiss her when i want to kiss her or have sex with her she acts hard or say that she is tierd or afraid of anyone to see us
    What she wants is what she can get from you. She's after your money, dinner, drinks, entertainment, or whatever else you'll give her. She's will to give up some tongue and a cheap feel but not give up sex to get it.
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    Dec 9, 2010, 08:04 AM
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    That's good (:
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    Dec 9, 2010, 02:02 PM

    Enjoy it while it lasts.
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