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    reclu2010 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 15, 2010, 04:42 PM
    Should I wait or just move on..
    So I've been talking to this guy for about 3 1/2 going on to 4 months and everything is great I couldn't ask for a better guy.. we both are seniors in college and we both have things we want to accomplish in life, every Friday we have our day where we spend the whole day together... we also work together.. but the only thing is I do eventually want a relationship with him but he tells me that he doesn't want one until he's done with school and I can understand that... I guess I'm really scared that if I do wait for him until we finish school he will change his mind and say he doesn't want a relationship with me... I've been through some pretty crappy relationships in the past and I don't know what to do or believe.. he hasn't given me any reasons to not take his word I don't know help! Lol
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    Nov 15, 2010, 04:53 PM

    The more you push for a relationship and the more you beg and whine, the more you will turn him off. Loosen up and see what happens. He may decide he wants you in his life as much as you want him in yours.

    Sit tight, finish college, get on with your life, and be open to meeting lots of people.
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    Nov 16, 2010, 08:54 AM
    Thanks I needed to hear that.. I guess all I can do is sit back and wait.. im sure something good will come out of it... good things do come to those who wait and if not he's a good friend as well!
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    Nov 16, 2010, 09:31 AM

    Reclue

    I agree just worry about your schooling. You can have a friendship with him, but I wouldn't let yourself feel anything deeper for him. He has been upfront with you that he doesn't want a relationship until he is done with school or basically until he has all I's dotted and T's crossed.

    Get out and meet other people, don't sit around waiting for him. Enjoy the rest of your college life! Good luck
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