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    craigoooo Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 7, 2010, 11:43 AM
    My girl friend is 6 months pregnant and doesn't respect or act like she loves me at all...
    I pay all her bills treat her 4 yr old daughter like my own.the only time she ever is nice is if she wants something... I even bought her a car... she is in a custody battle and I pay the lawyer... all I do is give and I only get to see her every other week... this has been going on for 10 mon.. she doesn't act like she wants to be around me when we are together.she stays on Facebook,or talking on the phone... please help
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    Nov 7, 2010, 12:33 PM

    And you allow this treatment why??
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    Nov 7, 2010, 12:52 PM

    Maybe she doesn't want to be around you, but since you are willing to have a one sided relationship, and help her out with all of her expenses, why should she let you go?

    Have you talked to her about how you feel? Her response, and whether she makes any effort to consider your feelings, will let you know whether you should continue in the relationship.
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    Nov 9, 2010, 09:40 AM
    Try to get her flowers and take her out to dinner. Maybe if she sees your trying to streghten the relationship she will too. If she is still acting up then you need to give her a reality check. She knows she has you wrapped around her finger she is just going to keep doing it until you put your foot down.
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    Nov 9, 2010, 10:11 AM

    Is your name Craig or sugardaddy.
    I would start by not paying for HER custody situation, that is her previous commitment NOT yours. You are not marriage to her, so move out or if its your place advise her to move out. Obviously this isn't a relationship to her its more along the lines of "means of support". If you really want to make it work, you BOTH will need to get some counseling.
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    Nov 9, 2010, 11:34 AM

    I assure you that life is too short to be treated like a door-mat.

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