What to do about my boyfriend...
Back in June I got back together with my first boyfriend. We broke up the first time because a) I refused to pay for anything for him anymore and b) he cheated. Long story short.
So we get back together, everything is pretty OK for the first couple months. He had a job, I barely saw him, no big deal. Now he has no job, his truck is broke, he wants me to pay for his 50" tv and when I do see him I a) have to pick him up b) he's buried in his phone constantly texting (other girls I'm thinking?) c) doesn't seem to appreciate anything I do for him.
He gets upset when I ask who he's texting. He always changes his story around. For example he got a new phone, said he got it off ebay, it had some pic of a half dressed girl and he claimed he had no idea who she was and said that when he plugs his phone in the charger, that picture magically pops up. Last night when I said something about it he goes "Yeah, that was my ex girlfriend, the one that was just texting me." and when I called him out on it he said "no, I never said that" like I'm stupid.
I'm not happy, we fight all the time over stupid things. He expects me to ask him to kiss me or hug me. He won't do it otherwise. I even have to ask him to help me carry something heavy.
Everyone tells me I should break up with him. And I agree because I'm not happy and I'm not being treated like I should. He's incredibly selfish. If something doesn't benefit him, he wants nothing to do with it.
I'm just needing advice on what to do, how to end it, or even a suggestion on how to fix it. He gets so upset when I say something he doesn't want to hear, then he says he's going to go kill himself and says REALLY hurtful things to me...
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