We conceived our son only two weeks after getting married. Yet it took us over a year to get preggy with current baby (#2) It just goes to show you, that your body is never predictable, and these things are just a matter or timing, luck, and patience. Go see your gyno. And get an exam, just to make sure that everything is in working order, and you can put those worries out of your mind. Most importantly,, relax and enjoy the ride. Too many times it becomes all business, and it takes the point out of the process. Which is to bring the two of you closer together. So don't let it get too much like business, or it could damage your relationship. On a personal note, I would just like to mention how much work it is to have a baby at this age. My hubby and I were 19 when married, and got preggy with our first son. Trying to manage a new marriage, and a pregnancy at the same time can be very difficult. I would suggest getting married and settled down a little bit before continuing to try. Once you get married, and that stress is out of the way, and you get to know each other a little better, I wouldn't be surprised if you got pregnant right away. (stress is a big road block to conceiveing) I didn't think there was anything more I could learn about my hubby just from getting married. Thought I knew EVERYTHING about him. Haha, its amazing how much marriage brings out things you don't know. Not necisarily bad things, just things that you don't know, and osmetimes take some getting use to. If you don't have pregnancy hormones raging, its easier to take these changes in. I'm not trying to tell you how to live your life. I'mjust trying to offer some personal friendly advice. Best of wishes, and good luck
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