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    nishgirl1999 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 10, 2010, 08:10 AM
    I'm Dating this guy and I kind of like him but I'm in love with this other guy
    OK it may sound weird but I'm dating this guy that like loves me that he'd never ever dump me, but I only like him a bit and plus we never hang out. Anyway but at the same time I'm like In love with this other guy that doesn't like me! What do I do?
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    Oct 10, 2010, 12:43 PM
    I think that you are lucky to have a boy who truly loves you. If the other one doesn't have the same feelings for you it is quite impossible get him in love with you, taking into account that generally, boys are the one who chose the girls. In spite of this, you shouldn't keep being involved with this boy if you don't love him. You will only hurt him when he finds out the truth, and the more the relationship lasts, the more hurt he will be. Be honest to you and to him and do what you think it is right.
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    Oct 11, 2010, 08:12 AM

    If you don't care about the guy you're with, then you need to break it off with him and let him find someone who does care about him.
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    Oct 12, 2010, 10:31 AM

    Figure out what you want and stick with it. Don't lead either guys on anymore.
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    Oct 12, 2010, 10:38 AM

    Don't lead the other guy on. Especially if he has strong feelngs for you. Don't put him on the back burner.

    It's as simple as that.

    Good luck.
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    Oct 12, 2010, 11:22 AM

    "Never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love."

    Something that I have always like and kind of relates here. Just don't try and lead the guy on or hurt him.
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