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nellyma · Oct 6, 2010, 02:58 PM

We've been together for almost 7months now but my mother don't approve it so I still date him lo'key

ScottGem · Oct 6, 2010, 03:05 PM

A 15 yr old and a 19 yr old are often at very different stages of development. There is normally very little in common. And sex is most likely illegal. I don't blame you mom for disapproving. And he could get in trouble for defying your parent's wishes.

If you have been together for 7 months then he was at least 18 when you started dating. And an 18 yr old should no better than to take up with a 15 yr old.

nellyma · Oct 6, 2010, 03:42 PM

Like just tell me Like describe to me how you would know when you're really in love or when you really love someone

411Help · Oct 6, 2010, 05:01 PM

Everyone is going to have a different opinion on the matter, as for mine, I'll leave you with a quote...

“Love isn't finding a perfect person. It's seeing an imperfect person perfectly.”

talaniman · Oct 7, 2010, 07:15 AM

I bet you are in love and those feelings for this guy are very real to you. But what kind of love would make a child, mature or not go behind her parents back? That's not a healthy love, nor a mature way to deal with what you're feeling. As a matter of fact, you are so carried away by your feelings that you are doing the wrongs things, and put you both in danger from not only your parents never trusting you, but your boyfriend being hassled by the law. Your parents can make a lot of trouble for you both, even his parents.

You may be in love, but until you know what to do about it, do as your parents are saying, and leave the older guy alone. If its really love, you will be able to do the right things for you both, and don't have to sneak around and hide it.

Fr_Chuck · Oct 7, 2010, 07:42 AM

The simple fact you are disobey your mother means it is wrong.
You are lying, will lose any and all trust with her , when she finds out.

And even if not having sex, he is interfering with the wishes of your mother.
If he touches you, even with clothes on, he is violating some sexual law in many states, if he is having sex with you, he is now a criminal

MIZZ.CASTANEDA · Oct 7, 2010, 11:07 AM

Well not really I'm 16 and I'm going out with a 18 year old... But when I was 14 I was dating a 22 year old... All I got to say is ''Don't open your legs''

411Help · Oct 7, 2010, 02:45 PM

A nineteen year-old in love with a fifteen year-old? That seems very sketchy.. It would be best to discuss this with your parents. When your trust with them is broken, it is very hard to repair it.

MIZZ.CASTANEDA · Oct 7, 2010, 03:08 PM

Well look girl well me and my boyfriend have a problems but he is a nice guy even though some of the times he is mean to me but I told him keep acting like this and ima break up with you... oh and I told my sister and brother in law because I live with hem and they were cool with it they just said use a condum or just don't open your legs...

ScottGem · Oct 7, 2010, 06:20 PM

Originally Posted by MIZZ.CASTANEDA

well not really im 16 and im going out with a 18 year old........But when i was 14 i was dating a 22 year old............All i got to say is ''Don't open your legs''

Originally Posted by MIZZ.CASTANEDA

well look girl well me and my boyfriend have a problems but he is a nice guy even though some of the times he is mean to me but i told him keep acting like this and ima break up with you..... oh and i told my sister and brother in law because i live with hem and they were cool with it they just said use a condum or just don't open your legs.............

We are here to give advice to people that does not get them in trouble with the law. That involves respecting their parents and themselves. You are doing no one any favors by citing your claimed experience. You really think it was OK for a 22 yr old man to date a 14 yr old? How long did that last? About as long as it took to realize he couldn't get you to "open your legs"? Or maybe as long as it took to get your legs open.

Also a 16 and 18 yr old is actually very different than 15-19. But I really wonder if your sister is really "cool with it" or just thinking how headstrong you are and that you won't listen to good advice anyway.

talaniman · Oct 7, 2010, 07:35 PM

Originally Posted by MIZZ.CASTANEDA
Well look girl well me and my boyfriend have a problems but he is a nice guy even though some of the times he is mean to me but I told him keep acting like this and ima break up with you... oh and I told my sister and brother in law because I live with hem and they were cool with it they just said use a condum or just don't open your legs...

I hardly think your parents would be so lenient, with you or your sister.