[Ekaphopsaejee]

Dear Anyone,
I have known this girl for quite a while, I have had girlfriends before but she was different. We have been dating for half a year now but one night she sent me a text saying we should break up. =( For the past few months, she has been dating two of my friends and because of that I never talked to my friends again. This girl is a very strong christian and she hates it when I drink or smoke or party.After her finding out that my second friend doesn't like her due to some issues, she then starts talking to me and starts giving hints that she wants to get back together. But as soon as she knew I went out partying(I was trying to forget her) she ignored me, forever but last night she told me that we shouldn't talk to each other...



I know I sound really immature or something like that but thing is I can't stop thinking about her, no matter how much alcohol consumptions I had. :(

[jheep]

Tell her how you feel and what you want. Be honest. No more playing games.

If she agrees to have you, well then good. Start on a clean slate.

If she doesn't agree to be with you, then just accept being dumped by her. It will hurt and it will probably hurt a lot.

But at least you'll not be in limbo. It will either be heaven or hell for you. And you'll be able to move on with your life with or without her.

P.S.
Alcohol will not make you forget. You have to deal with your own feelings and work through it, no matter how difficult it may be especially if you don't get what you want. That's life.

[kctiger]

You shouldn't have to change who you are and what you like to do to please someone. This girl was dating two of your other friends and when it didn't work out with them, all of a sudden she wants you back. I wouldn't be sitting around waiting nor would I give her the satisfaction of having me back after TWO of my FRIENDS didn't work out. She broke up with you over a text then dated two of your close friends. She doesn't seem to even respect you.

Don't treat yourself like a revolving door. Just because she is a devout Christian doesn't give her the right to judge you or patronize you. Move on and do what she asked. No reason to talk to her again.

And as far as drinking to forget, it doesn't work out. It intensifies the emotions and makes the morning after worse. How about doing productive things to take your mind off her?

[talaniman]

Cutting all contact with her and do your own thing, and build a life that you enjoy, are the ways to get over a failed romance, and move beyond it. Looking for solutions in a bottle is a losers game.