[britEl]

OK so I met this guy at a university caberet a few weeks ago, he's gorgeous. Anyway, we hung out a couple times, got to know each other a bit better, we got kind of intimate with each other, so last week he leaves my house saying he'll see me later. And I'm thinking he's going to text me for another date or to hang out again. So I text him after he leaves telling him I had fun and hope to see him soon, and I haven't heard from him once all week. Do you think I scared him off or maybe he's not interested? When we did hang out the few times I was the one who asked if he wanted to. So do you think it was just a sort of tester date to see if he liked me? And if so why did he have to make out with me to figure out he didn't like me? So confused..

[talaniman]

Maybe he is busy, or occupied, but whatever it is, why would you base it on a make out session because that tells you nothing, and what guy doesn't make out with a willing female.

Hey you don't know the guy really, you just met him, so don't put so much hope into such a casual encounter. If he was interested, he would be looking for you, so take it as a lack of interest, and forget it.

[KoolAide187]

Could had been a number of things. Maybe by making out with him so quickly you came across as being easy and not a challenge so he lost interest. I'd say forget about him as well. If he was interested he wouldn't be playing these games if that is in fact what he is doing. He may just be generally disinterested. He may be just trying to play on your emotions cause he knows you're thinking about him and you called him which told him you wanted to talk to him therefore you were interested. The only thing you can really do is to move on and if he tries to contact you down the road a bit just keep an eye out for him doing the same thing. Good luck with whatever you do.