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    Miso123 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 8, 2010, 06:06 AM
    Men and behaviour
    Why do men get offended with women and keep their offenses for so long?

    i.e. if you had a past relationship and they get offended after, then get engaged and instead of forgetting about you keep staying offended with you?

    Thanks
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    Sep 8, 2010, 06:26 AM

    I don't think you can put all men in this category, any more than you can say "why do [all] women do this or that."

    I've been in relationships; I'm divorced; I was then widowed; I'm remarried. My husband has no problem with my "past."

    Everyone is different.

    I am assuming you have a problem in your relationship involving a past relationship which your current boyfriend can't drop?

    Care to share any of that? (We've pretty much heard it all on AMHD.)
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    Sep 8, 2010, 08:06 AM
    That's my take too Judy.

    Sounds like resentment that has not been dealt with.

    And, totally agree, but out of greenies for you, that not all men, or all women, behave in predictable ways, all of the time.

    My husband is a fluff ball and wears women's deoderant. :confused:
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    Sep 8, 2010, 08:24 AM

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ps-505798.html

    Guys are not the only ones to be weird and have trippy ways.

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