[liverpoolfc]

Hi all I am toby and I am 15 nealy 16 I really like wearing tongs and g strings and also bras and these are my mums and sisters I have had girl friends but when I am in p.e I like looking at the other boys am I gay or bi :confused:

[Bluerose]

liverpoolfc

Sounds to me like you are experimenting, sweetie. My advice right now is to go with the flow. If you can live a good and decent life without deliberately hurting yourself or anyone else in the process, you have every right to live in whatever way makes you happy. Don't be in such a rush to discover the answer to your question. Simply go with the flow and be considerate of other people's feelings, and hopefully they will be considerate of yours.

[major_soccer_freak]

If it feels good do it, if you enjoy doing it go for it let life lead you. Good luck

[Fr_Chuck]

Nothing better than silk

I am not a G sting type of guy but if you like them what the heck.

And honestly I don't know many ladies that really like bras and would prefer to do without them if gravity was not a issue.

But at your age, it is actually more normal than anyone ever will admit or get honest studies on. So I would would say you are more normal than you know just a little more honest about talking about it.

[richsaha2007]

You are truly experimenting. If you like wearing women's clothing, there nothing wrong with it. Just don't keep any secrets with your girlfriend. You wouldn't want her falling for you when she doesn't know you feel like this. Just keep things mutual until you decide what you want.

[Reecetard]

Hi :), I'm in the same position as you kind of but younger and not interested in girls clothing, but I am in their "cultures" and things they talk about. I too like looking at boys in the changing rooms. Maybe look at some pictures of woman, like page 3 in the sun and ask yourself do you really like the look of them? Do they make your face light up, does the thought of a woman having relations with you make you hapy? Do the same for males and decide.

[keenabena]

Your gay

[ItsEasyToBreakYou]

liverpoolfc

Sounds to me like you are experimenting, sweetie. My advice right now is to go with the flow. If you can live a good and decent life without deliberately hurting yourself or anyone else in the process, you have every right to live in whatever way makes you happy. Don't be in such a rush to discover the answer to your question. Simply go with the flow and be considerate of other people's feelings, and hopefully they will be considerate of yours.

I completely agree with the above.

I think it's normal.
You curious... not that I have tons of info about it but I went through that minus the crossdressing thing when I was like 14. It's a curiousity thing and it's perfectly normal. But I do agree with what Reecetard said.

Just let things happen.

[sparky_018]

Hi I am bi I went though a stage of likein girls clothes I think you are just discovering who you are I agree with the others if it feels right do it just try not to hurt anyone on the way

[Dave987]

I have a similar question... I was watching straight porn with a friend (male) and I was masturbating and, well, he did it for me for a short time. It was OK, but I'm not sure if that means I'm gay, bi or what ever, but I have NEVER had a girl friend and I am 16 years old. But I have gone to the stage of almost frigging a girl at the age of 11, I don't know if this has put me off girls because she used to force me into it but I stopped it. I do masturbate over girls (I fancy my step sister... I go through her draws sometimes and masturbate over her, normal?) but my mind seems to drift occasionally to thinking about boys. Am I gay or bi or stright or what ever!

[xxmissconfusedxx]

your gay

That is so unbeilevably RUDE.




But hun I say you like to experiment... as do may people and it is completely normal but as you grow older you'll come to find out "what you are"

[xxmissconfusedxx]

I have a similar question...i was watching straight porn with a friend (male) and i was masturbating and, well, he did it for me for a short time. It was ok, but im not sure if that means im gay, bi or what ever, but i have NEVER had a girl friend and i am 16 years old. But i have gone to the stage of almost frigging a girl at the age of 11, i don't know if this has put me off girls because she used to force me into it but i stopped it. I do masturbate over girls (I fancy my step sister...i go through her draws sometimes and masturbate over her, normal?) but my mind seems to drift occasionally to thinking about boys. Am i gay or bi or stright or what ever!?

Your curious and there is nothing wrong with being curious but the whole step sister thing freaked me out a bit I would calm down on that because if she or anyone else in the household finds you doing so you'll probley get looked down upon.

I think your curious and you also will find out who you are

[Dave987]

I suppose, oh and the step sister thing.. I think your right, even though loads of people know already, oh well, I'll live :)

[xxmissconfusedxx]

Yea you will and that's the good thing abuot it

[Diandra__Magdalene]

its hard cause I don't know your exact position.
and how your feeelings towards your girlfriend are.
you could be bi; but I don't completely think it somehting you should ask advice on..
just because you are you and if you like a girl you like a girl.
you can't do anything about it.
if you like a boy you like a boy.
and you can't do anything about it.
you know?

so what ever make you happy.
doesn't mean you have to label your sexuality.
=]
x

[Sam DePecan]

It is not unusual for guys like you to have women jumping all over you like a hungry spider on a sick fly! . . . . . . . I have seen THAT all of my life . . . . . . . . And when I was anything like your age, our years were 3-digit numbers. So, don't worry about it.

[andy305mia]

To me your thinking of what it would feel like to be with a guy but to me your straight but your just experimenting how it would feel like if you wer the opposite sex.

[youngn.ready]

I think you are not gay or bi, all boys have the curiosity you do to see each other for comparison with self etc. I use to look and some boys while changing in the locker room's. I always wanted to see some nice bodies but I am not gay or bi, hope this helps