[i_miss_tim]

Me and this guy have been talking kind of I don't really no if he likes me but I like him a lot me and him have been chillin together a lot too but I don't no what to do you see the last time I seen him was on Saturday... we got arrested thast night but they let us both go we were both in trouble and grounded on Sunday so we didn't get to see each other we only got to talk on the phone he said he would see me on Monday and he wouild come looking for me well I was in a perfect spot one of the spots he noes to look for me at and he never came I went home and was upset that I didn't see him I called and and his family didn't no where he was either then on Tuesday I was in school and I found out that on Monday night he got arrested and is in jail now I was so and I only haven't seen him in 4 days but it seems like a lot longer he was sopossed to get bailed out last night but his dad didn't go get him I called his brother and he said he didn't no what was going on and he didn't no when he was going to get bailed out I miss him though and I don't no what to do cause I don't no how long he is going to be in there for or even if he lieks me and he hasn't called me since Monday HELP I like him a lot

[orb]

The type of help he needs I don't think anyone on this list can provide.

If you like him that's great! When things settle down (which they will) then be supportive of him.

[chaz1797]

Hi,
Your young and sometimes it's hard for us to know what our feelings are let alone someone else's feelings. Is this the person you want to be around with? Is it worth it... Think about your future and what you want, one thing that might help is being forward and asking that person if he likes you.It seems your frustrated over someone that you really don't know if he cares for you... Life is short and sweet for the innocent, give yourself time if he's not your knight in shinning armour, who knows someone is closer to you than you think that likes you... Good luck and God bless...
Chaz :)

[i_miss_tim]

Aight I tried last night to go to the jail and visit him but they wouldn't let me cause I was too young my mom said she is going to take me there next Saturday and I wrote him a letter today and I just mailed it to him an hour ago so he should be getting it on mon or tues also I found out he is going to have 4-6 months there which isn't that long and I am excited about that I can't wait to seee him but I'm scared he isn't goingt o want me there in the letter I straight out wrote do you like and do you think we could be together when you get out I hope he says yea and I was talking to his brother today and he told me he was goiong to tell him to call me I hope he does cause I miss him but thanks a lot

[dwalex]

You need to have more respect for yourself than to be allowing yourself to settle for this obvious looser. He is in jail because he cannot control himself. Dump him and go find someone to spend your time with who has his life headed in a positive dirrection. And learn to love yourself outside of relationships so you will not be drawn to bad relationships simply because you have no other joy in life.

Best wishes,
dwalex