[MOMTOKAIT]

I'm hoping someone can help me here.

Background on me: 28 female, married with a 2 year old child.

I have a friend that I went to college with and got back in contact with about 3 years ago. Right around that time I got pregnant, and I also got her a job at the company where I work. My entire pregnancy she irritated and bothered me with her work ethics and the way she was suffocating me. When I went on maternity leave (it's a year here in Canada) it helped a lot and we started spending a lot of time together. I eventually got back to work and last August she got engaged and asked me to be her MOH. I said yes. She has been a bridezilla. She has been a horrible employee. She gets jealous when I eat lunch with my husband instead of her during the week. She is rude to my new next door neighbor because she thinks she'll take me away from her. It's insane. I don't agree with a lot of her work ethics/life ethics but since she is such an aggressive and smothering person I just keep my mouth shut. She is always trying to pit me against my employers, my husband and anyone other than her. She's very negative and I find myself being a horrible person when I am with her.

Her wedding is in September. I am having anxiety attacks, my depression is getting worse and I am having a really hard time being her friend. I want to break up with her but am having difficulty with it because we work together and because I am in her wedding.

Does anyone have any advice for me on how to do it, whether to do it etc?

[livingfunky]

It sounds to me like she's jealous of you for what ever reason if a friend makes you unhappy then there not a true friend, tell her how you feel if she doesn't like it she wasn't a friend to start with... don't feel obliged to go to the wedding if you don't feel happy about it... its your life to live how you want and no one has the right to make you feel unhappy tell her how you feel... good luck...