[Maria]

I have been friends with this guy for about 1 year now and we have become really close. At the beginning of our realtaionship I was very much attracted to him, and I told him. But at the time he did not like me in that manner. After a while I was told by his best friend that he had strong feelings for me, but he did not act on them. After a few more weeks, he found himself attracted to my girlfriend, and they began to date, but the relationship has'nt gone so well and they broke up. He still wants her back, but she doesn't want him. I have fallen in love with him and I don't know if I should tell him even though he has strong feelings for my girlfriend. In my eyes we are like soulmates we get along so well and can spend hours each day just being with each other. I seems that he likes me but just can't tell me... I am so confused about all of this I just don't know what to do please if you have a clue what I am talking about and have some advice,? Help!

[guyfromnj84]

Some guys just like to know they have a girl that they can just be friends with and don't want to risk a relationship to mess it up... I know I wish I had a girl as a friend, and nothing more - just to share talk, hang out, etc..

[deadly-x-whispers]

You should tell him... if he feels the same way than tell him, it could change your life forever for the better... I fell imlove with the best friend I could ever have, but she's never felt the same way about me an I kept asking her out and hopeing that she might change her mind but in the end I lost the best friend I could ever have... trus me in this the worst thing to have is a broken heart! It ruins your life... if you love him at least find out if he feels the same way... and if he does and you do go out... dont le anyone or anything mess it up cause to be going out with someone you've fallen in love with is the best thing in the world!

[Sahi444]

I would not consider this a good time to tell him about your feelings. You should wait till he gets over the trauma but do tell him before he finds another girl


Besta luck

[hellz15]

I'm kind of in the same position but the person he liked wasn't one of my friends and he never went out with her,she totally ignored him and broke his heart but he's close but he's so far away and he doesn't even notice me in that way