Should I tell him
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Hi all
I've been seeing a guy since last oct, we get on really well.
He told me from the beginning he didn't want a relationship, and I wasn't looking for one either, my previous boyfriend died and was looking for a bit of fun,
This guy has been seeing me at least twice a week, and he also tells me of other sexual encounters, which at first did not bother me.
He says he thinks a lot of me , but a relationship is out of the question.
But of late I have realised I do have feelings, but am not sure how to tell him . We have been seeing each other for nine months, but he just calls me a mate.
I can't carry on like this lying to myself, but I'm scared of losing him altogether,
And if I do tell him how should I go about it.. because it hurts when he talks about other girls , and not knowing when I'm going to see him again, as he never makes arrangements when he leaves ill get a call saying can I come round.. he has told me he loves me but doesn't want a relationship because he doesn't want to hurt me..
Then he says he would love to move in with me... then he kools off again then.. goes back to denial... the whole things starting to get me down... and he's confused me totally... I've tried to tell him how I feel but the words don't come out right... but I no I need to sit him down and tell him
But how do I tell him
And what do I say with out scaring him off...
Help!
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