Is it over?
I believe that you should just forget about him. Whatever his reasons were for his sudden change in behavior, people have the right to spend time with or date whomever they wish, and if a person no longer wants you in their life then it is their right. He obviously does not want a relationship with you, if he did, you wouldn't have to keep calling him with no response from him. Remember that you just ended a relationship with your husband and you might be a little vulnerable right now, so don't let your emotions and loneliness make you lose sight of what's important. What's important should not be this guy who obviously had other motives than entering a relationship with you. Maybe he just wanted sex, maybe he's a user and he uses people and then throws them away. Whatever he is, you are better off without him because it sounds like he doesn't deserve you anyway. Don't let him define how you feel about yourself and take away your self-worth. Believe in yourself and know that you will eventually meet a man who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Don't sweat this guy by continuing to call him. Count this experience as a lesson and move on with your life. Good luck and God bless you.
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