[confused1]

I am in a very confusing situation! I have been in a relationship for 3 years with my childhood seetheart. The problem is I am in love with a guy I was involved with three years ago! I have three kids and I don't want to hurt them! How can I be in a relationship when I have deep feelings for someone else! Its too hard to just walk away!

[elrp]

Try having a short break from the relationship, even if it's just a week away on your own. It will give you time to clear your head and sort out what you really want.

[petals123]

I think you need to sort your thoughts properly.

Think well about whom you love and whom you want to spend your life with.

It might seem very difficult to choose, but you have to decide, you can't go on thinking u will hurt one of them.

But before you decide, remember that your kids need you and they should be on the top of your list. In watever you do, your kids should not be badly affected. How old are they?

If you continue to hide, one day you might loose both the persons of your life.

Good luck

*Petals*