[vipulss]

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I am an Indian male aged 26 years residing at Mumbai,India. My family consists of my widow mom, myslef and my wife whom my married just a month back.My dad expired 7 years back when I was studying. I have one elder sister who is married.Financially we are well to do.My mom and wife are at home the whole day managing the house.My moms nature has become bad over the past several years due to my dads ill health and then he passed off and due to all these circumstances.She had become very possessive of me from then and now when my wife has come, she is not behaving properly with her. She can't even see me talking with my wife sweetly and gets angry or disturbed.She always points out all kinds of errors when my wife tries to do some house work and never supports her.My wife is a very emotional person and she wants to win over my mom.When my mom behaves in such a manner, she gets very disturbed.She is not able to tell anything to my mom but keeps crying alone in the room.I told her to igonore my mom and just keep minimum interaction but due to her sensitive nature she is unable to do so.I can't even tell anything to my mom since she gets disturbed and starts crying and I am afraid of her.Hence I don't know how to react in this situation and what to do.Pleas help me out.I remain very disturbed and confused.

[Krystal]

There is nothing confusing about your situation. If you married and love your wife, get your mother out of that house. If you wish to remain with your mother then by all means do so. If you wish to be married, your mother has no reason to be in the house with you. No marriage can withstand a mother - least of all a mother like yours. You are not confused. You have not grown up. You want a wife? Act like a husband...