[abaladoonga]

So there's this girl I was with her for a year. I know I hurt her really badly I rather not say what I did. She moved on had 2 bf's after me they both hurt her n somehow I was always there for her again. We ended up talking again. I've had 1 girlfriend after her but I'm not even over her. She's changed A lot A lot. A lot of our friends are'nt even friends with her anymore because she changed so much. So most of my friends hate her now. When I don't talk to her I feeel like what hell why should I still like her she isn't worth it she moved on. When we talk I forget it all and want her back so bad. In 3 days its going to be our 2 years. Ijust miss her so much. I try to show her I care but she just snaps and tells me its her life I shouldn't care what she does. I don't know how to get over her we did'nt talk for 7 months only 2 mini convos in those 7 months and it still didn't help me get over her. What should I do =[

[allinvege]

A few things - first of all did you learn a lesson by whatever you did? If not, you'll have repeat issues in any new relationships.

It sounds like you're divided in chasing her and reconciling or moving on based on the hope she'll come back to you. You should move on, since its clear she doesn't want a relationship with you by her comments and lack of communication for so long. Once you understand that, it may get easier for you. Try new hobbies and doing things that make you happy, and a new better girlfriend will come your way.

[mr_sad]

She obviously only sees you as only a friend now. She doesn't seem to have those same feeling when you two are together. Sometimes our friends see things in people that we can't see because we are blinded by love. Your going to make yourself crazy if you don't separate yourself from her completely.

[talaniman]

Stop talking to her period. And get busy with getting your own life together so you can enjoy yourself and maybe make new friends.

[Fr_Chuck]

For good or bad, she has moved on and has "changed"

And sorry, no even "some" contact is contact, you need to just move on, and stop feeling gulty from what you did, and hopefully as the one person said, LEARNED a lesson and treat a new person better

[positiveparent]

Let it go you're only going to end up hurting.

Go No Contact and stay that way.

[abaladoonga]

you I learned my lesson.. but it just weird how she randomly messaged my friend and told her I feel bad for the things I said to jesse and how we fell apart and after that she started to talk to me -_-

[abaladoonga]

Ahh thank you to all .