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    JasmineLOVE105 Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 14, 2006, 07:09 PM
    My friends who's a girl...
    My friend Shelby likes me. In a way that she wants to grab my and do other stuff with me. It's scary. How can I tell her in a nice way that I don't like her like that?
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    Dec 14, 2006, 07:16 PM
    Uhm, I do not like you that way. Please understand I just want to be friends. That is it.
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    Dec 14, 2006, 07:17 PM
    Be firm and tell her flat out that it distrubs you when she does that. If she does it again you will consider it a betrayal of trust to your friendship.
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    Dec 14, 2006, 07:22 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JasmineLOVE105
    My friend Shelby likes me. In a way that she wants to grab my and do other stuff with me. It's scary. How can I tell her in a nice way that I dont like her like that?
    Just tell her that you are good friends and stuff and here's a sentence just 2 get you started:
    Be like "I like you and everything and we're good friend, but I don't feel comfortable with the things you do and like I really hope you understand."
    Say sonething like that but in your own way
    I really hope I helped in a little bit
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    Dec 14, 2006, 10:02 PM
    Touch me again and I'll slap the h### out of you, and keep smiling. No body should touch someone like that and get away with it. Forget nice.
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    Dec 14, 2006, 10:19 PM
    Next time she touches you... scream COOTIES real loud and look a bit psycho! :eek: No, LOL just kidding. I get a little goofy after midnight. Sorry :o Find a time when you can approach her privately and tell her you need her help with a serious concern you have. When you have her attention simply say, I need you to keep your hands to yourself please. It makes me uncomfortable. And let her answer and go from there. If necessary, mention how you are friends and you thought maybe she didn't know how you felt so you thought you better tell her since you are counting on her understanding. Nice and diplomatic, okay?
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