[webslinger_94]

All right this is kind of long... lol
My friend Chelsey lives across the street from me, and we are very close friends. She had an abusive boyfriend and I really like her but she doesn't think that I can handle her (she has some issues from her abusive ex)and she says that she doesn't want to hurt me because she likes to have fun. I know I can deal with her problems and I honestly think that we would have enough "fun" where she wouldn't have a need to mess around behind my back. She tells me that I'm a really sweet guy and she really cares about me and a little part of her wants to give me a chance but she wants to try and cope with her problems from her previous relationship first. We hang out literally every night and one night about a month or two ago we made out, and I could tell she really liked it, and we would make out all the time after that and she always teases me and puts her hand by my d**k or something like that but it never went farther than that. But then one night we were watching a movie and she said her back was sore so being the nice guy that I am I gave her a back rub and when I was done she pulled on my shirt and brought me closer to her face and we started to make out and then I moved my arm and she grabbed it and put it on her vagina, and I fingered her and then she wanted to have sex so we had sex but I kind of messed it up because I came after only like 5 minutes of sex. I felt pathetic about it so I talked to her about it and she said it was no big deal, but I knew she was upset about it and so it kept bugging me and I would always bring up the fact that I knew that it bothered her and we got into a big fight. We sorted everything out and we are still very close best friends but we get into little arguments all the time now and I can tell that she wants to have sex again but she doesn't want it to ruin everything this time if I mess it up again. I really need help with this I don't know what to do!! The reason why we get into arguments most of the time is because she says that I'm almost exactly like her ex and it makes me mad when she compares me to that low life. I don't know what I should do, should we try to have a relationship? I can talk to her about anything so whatever advice I can get would be very helpful.

[redhed35]

Could I ask what age you both are please?

[jmjoseph]

How old are you both please?

[webslinger_94]

16

[webslinger_94]

16

[talaniman]

You are two 16 year olds experimenting with each others bodies, and neither of you knows enough to tell the other what, and how to do anything.

No relationship, since your just friends playing with each others bodies, and had better get facts before you screw up, and have more to argue than just about how to do it to each other, like making babies.

That's what sex can lead to, and disease.

I urge you to get educated about sex, and take the right steps to protect each other, and yourselves.

A real education and not just heresy from another dumb teen ager. Read a book, or talk to a trusted responsible adult.

[ISneezeFunny]

Good lord, please please please tell me you used a condom so that in a month, I don't see the "this girl I messed around with could be pregnant" post...