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domdomy · Jul 2, 2010, 03:39 PM

Look I have been seduced as I was young and now when I grew enough to understand what is the meaning of a definition that I don't own in my personality manhood ,I really tried hard to stop doing these gay actions but all went in vain, I just want to know how to be straight again

Clough · Jul 2, 2010, 03:53 PM

Hi, domdomy!

How long ago was it that you were seduced, please?

Thanks!

justcurious55 · Jul 2, 2010, 04:12 PM

Why are you so against being gay? What I've been told by all of my gay friends is that it's just the way they are, it's not a choice. And my human sexuality teacher was talking about recent studies that show homosexuality is biological (I don't remember what studies, if I do later I'll be sure to post them). I'm not really sure that you can go back and forth being gay and straight, are you maybe bisexual?

And what do you consider gay actions?

Clough · Jul 2, 2010, 04:40 PM

Hi, justcurious55!

I'm not so sure that domdomy is against being gay. What I got from the post was that being gay isn't in the way that domdomy is. Maybe being gay just isn't the way that domdomy knows that he is?

Thanks!

Fr_Chuck · Jul 2, 2010, 04:56 PM

If you are not gay and do not wish to have sex with people of the same sex, then stop, no one is making you have sex with anyone.

dwilyn · Jul 2, 2010, 07:12 PM

Sexual orientation is not something that can be easily switched off and on. In fact there seems to be increasing evidence (Google it) that sexual orientation is inborn, that is, you are born gay or straight. There are other orientations such as bisexual which is usually described as preferring neither orientation and being comfortable with either. I won't even try to get into the whole area of transgender.
You seem to be struggling with your "gayness" or at least your gay experiences. How would you describe "straight"? Why do you want to be straight which implies that at the moment you feel you are gay. Would thinking of yourself as straight solve some problems that you are experiencing now?
The first step is to try and figure out who you are, who you are comfortable with and what kind of people you are comfortable with. If you are mostly comfortable with gays then possibly you are gay and should accept who you are and move on. If you are mostly comfortable with straights-in spite of you gay experiences-then possibly you are straight.
Finally, if you are not totally comfortable with gay or straight then possibly you are bi and that is all right. Don't fight it so hard and just learn to love who you are. Good luck.
Dwilyn

talaniman · Jul 2, 2010, 08:39 PM

Why would you want to be straight? Sounds like a lot of OUTSIDE pressure on you.

Devorameira · Jul 3, 2010, 04:42 AM

First off - the important question is, are you attracted to women?

It's possible that someone took advantage of you when you were young and you really aren't pre-wired to be a gay guy.

If you really don't feel comfy in a gay roll and feel attracted to women, then you just need to stop having sex with men and start asking some women out.