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    Jul 1, 2010, 01:33 AM
    How do I get him to talk to me and come back to me?
    3 years together and after various troubles he broke up with me. He said that he couldn't cope with the emotional stuff then not long after followed by a 'I don't know if I love you' then in anger a 'I don't think I love you' I did it all wrong. I begged for days and he spoke less to me sometimes ignoring me, then I went onto just talking to him and so often saying I was so in love with him, wrong thing to do again with no response. He's talking to a girl who he has then gone on to say to her that I check up on him, and stuff which I didn't think I was doing at all, I thought asking about his day was general talk? He then said to me he doesn't know how to talk to me any more and can't as what's happened has happened. I've ruined it all but I love him with all of me. I would do anything to have him back as what we had was unbelievably special and he must know that. What I got to do to get him back, start talking again and to show him the whole emotional stuff has changed, he obviously has issues with me. Help :(
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    Jul 1, 2010, 04:22 AM

    How old are you? You have done enough begging, and pleading, so back away, and leave him alone.

    He doesn't want to talk to you, or be with you. Sorry, it happens, but you will move on, just so you can rebuild your dignity, and self respect.
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    Jul 1, 2010, 04:24 AM
    Well that was rude. And age is not relevant but I am an adult. Thanks. I think I know it happens...
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    Jul 1, 2010, 04:29 AM

    To be really honest justsomeoneelse I'm going through a break up myself after 3 years and I thought I couldn't be without him and wasn't going to work and was on anti depresants but one morning I just woke up after him ignoring me and then talking to me and so on and thought to myself I'm only 21 and women that are married and have kids with their husband manage to pull through it then you can. There's someone out there for everyone and clearly that's not him!

    What happenes.. happens for a reason.

    If its meant to be it will... but the more you contact him and stuff the closer youl push him to this other girl cause at the moment he's got the best of both worlds as soon as you stop acting like you care he will come crawling back
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    Jul 1, 2010, 04:33 AM

    And I know exactly what your thinkg about leaving him alone... "what happens if u do maybe he wil move on n stuff" but that's not the case as soon as you stop texting him and stuff he will think she hasn't text me today she must be busy and start wondering what your doing x
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