[tam115]

Hello, I hope you can give me some advice. There is a guy who works with me and over the past few weeks we have been flirting and cutting up with each other. The other night he asked me to meet him after work and I did. He wanted me to go out with him that night but I told him I couldn't because I was supposed to be meeting some friends. I asked if he would give me a raincheck. He said yes. My problem that I need advice about is how do I go about being with him but not coming off like a slut? I really like him and I know he is interested in me but I don't want him to get the wrong idea about me. Please help me. Thanks! :)

[elrp]

I'm not exactly sure what you're asking but if you mean how should you try not to be too flirty with him, then just be yourself.

He's clearly interested in you so you don't need to flirt too much in order for him to like you, because he does already!

Just relax, be yourself and have fun, after all this is what attracted him to you in the first place. You know when you're getting too friendly, so just calm yourself down and tell yourself to stop.

[shwetarose]

Hi Tam,

Attraction is a very natural thing and even more when you are working at a same place.

You are first likely to get attracted to positive qualities and later know negative qualities.

I suggest you to be first be a really good friend of him.This means not only good friend from your side but he should really be a good friend in real sense, not artificial.

If u feel that he is good friend and can be best friend later, then there is no problem to give a thought to make him life partner.

If nothing works, then just enjoy him as a good friend.



Good Luck,

Shweta.