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    jenniferhotncool Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 16, 2010, 05:02 AM
    I don't want my boyfriend
    Actauly he is frm my class and I have known him frm past 3yrs.. v r good friends and nothing more... sum times in class he used to make fun of me a lot and v used 2 fight a lot... actualy I'm in love wit anothr guy and hv askd him out... he told that he likes me but doesnot think this is d age for al this... now v both are really best friends and I still hv deep feelings about him... bt then our love story got a twist when d other guy proposed me and he told me that I'm his 1st love and he wants me more than anything... I was really shocked because I never thought that he has feelings about him.. he proposed me to be his girlfriend... after thinking a lot I told him yes because I didn't want 2 break his heart when I don't like him and love sum1 else... nw v both are in a realationship and he loves me like hell but I don't... I love sum1 else... n will always... wat should I do when I don't want 2 break his heart because I hate hurting people but now I'm hurting myself by being in a fake relationship..
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    Cat1864 Posts: 8,007, Reputation: 3687
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    Jun 16, 2010, 06:08 AM

    First, a friendly reminder, please do not use chat/text speak. It is against site rules and can result in your post or entire thread being deleted.

    Second, be honest that you do not share his feelings. Let him go to heal and find someone who does.

    Third, learn that you can't go through life making everyone happy. You can try to limit the hurt you cause, but you cannot eliminate it entirely. Trying to make everyone happy ends up hurting everyone for a lot longer than being honest about your feelings does.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,327, Reputation: 10855
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    Jun 16, 2010, 09:26 AM

    You will hurt him even more by not being honest, and stringing him along because your such a coward that can't be honest.

    Please don't post in chat text as its hard to read and understand, and not appropriate for this site and against the rules.
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    Devorameira Posts: 2,461, Reputation: 981
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    Jun 16, 2010, 02:48 PM

    You need to be up front and honest with him.

    It's not your job to try and make everyone happy at your expense.

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