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    Jun 14, 2010, 01:27 PM
    I had a baby 2 months ago.
    I just had a baby 2 months ago, and my husband and I haven't had sex. Is there something wrong with our marriage?
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    Jun 14, 2010, 01:41 PM

    You had a baby two months ago, and are worrying that you're not having sex? To be honest, if you were having much sex, I'd worry about you.

    Having a baby is a huge physical feat, and it takes time to recover. More if you had stitches or any form of surgery at the birth. And looking after a new baby is a 24 hour job. Most new mothers count sleep in minutes rather than hours.

    Under those circumstances, I'd be amazed if you had enough energy to be having sex.

    I have a vague memory of that stage and my husband started getting amorous. I told him not to be offended if I fell asleep halfway through, and if I did, he was on no account to wake me!
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    Jun 14, 2010, 01:46 PM

    No, as I think it will take some time, especially if this is your first baby. A lot of adjustments have to be made by you both.
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    Jun 14, 2010, 05:51 PM

    Normally doctors have not have sex for at least 6 weeks anyway, So has the doctor released you to have sex.

    Next it is an adjustment to having a baby, tired, up at all hours, often money issues.

    So how about talking and working on communication
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