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    cupKate Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 5, 2010, 05:09 PM
    Should I date my best friend?
    I'm feeling really conflicted.
    See me and the guy I'm interested in have been bestfriends for two years, through thick and thin etc.
    I've liked him on and off narly the whole time but never acted on it as we've both had different relaitonships over this time.
    But now I have feelings for him and he has feelings for me so here's the dilemma:
    I've turned him down once and I know if I do again I'll kick myself because I'm never going to find a guy who would treat me as good as him
    We're both in similar circumstances and also share another best friend.
    But I'm scared that I'll screw it up and that he'll end up hating me or that it will irreperably change things with the other best friend.
    I want to go for it but I'm not sure?
    In put?
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    Jun 5, 2010, 08:54 PM
    Hi, cupKate!

    Are you both currently in intimate relationships with others, please?

    Thanks!
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    Jun 6, 2010, 06:48 AM

    Well you have a fork in your road, go for it and possibly lose a awesome friend or ignore it and not strain your friendship. Most relationships go awry at one point or another. Do you really want to risk it?

    Who knows it may be worth it, I would talk to him some more about it and find out what he really thinks.
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