Re: question for everyone!
Hi Battleangel,
I've always been a big believer in trust. Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. My fiancée and I live over 500 miles away from each other, and without trust, we would probably be in serious trouble. She has a lot of guy friends who she hangs out with quite a bit, and yes, I'll admit it, sometimes I worry and I get jealous, but I trust HER. Just like last night, she spent the night at one of her guy friend's house. Why? I don't know. But before she went, I explained to her, as I do every time she goes to one's house, I do not trust the guy, and I have no intention of trusting him around her, especially when there's alcohol around. But as long as I trust her, then I don't usually worry about it much. Same with her trusting me, she knows I work with a girl who I go and watch movies and other things with, but she trusts I won't do anything to hurt her. So in a long way of answering your question, I could cheat without her ever knowing, but I wouldn't, for the simple fact that I love her more than anything in the world, and no girl, no matter how hot or sexy she is, is worth losing the love of your life. I hope I answered your question, even though it is sort of an indirect answer.
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