Being dumped has a way of making you feel differently, sometimes, about the person who dumped you.
My advice is to live your life, be nice to the 1st guy, and if he decides to chase you again, well then you get a second shot. If he leaves you alone, its his choice. Leave regrets behind as much as possible, they only slow you down and confuse you.
I made some stupid mistakes in a relationship that could have, I think, been a keeper... I was dumped, I moved on, I didn't make the same mistakes again. Good for me.
So... learn from your mistake. Don't try to force him to do anything. Show him a little interest if you want, but then move on with your life. You job is to make yourself happy, not to manipulate yourself into whatever will catch a guy.
As for the astrological signs... if this is what you think makes a great relationship, you are mistaken, in my opinion.
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