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    #21

    Jan 4, 2011, 06:23 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jenniepepsi View Post
    kjhgcgcgvt, this thread is old and already resolved :) please pay attention to dates :)
    And try to be a little more respectful with your answers.

    A parent doesn't find solace in thinking of their child "boning" as a cure for masturbation.
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    #22

    Jan 19, 2011, 11:33 PM
    What he is doing is what all boys do at that age. I started doing it when I was 8. Some friends didn't do it until well into puberty at 14 or 15. Whatever you think about it, just make sure he isn't doing something bad to himself in the process. My son got "creative" and ended up in the emergency room. Not sure who was more embarrassed: Him or me? His mom wasn't too thrilled either and was annoyed that I hadn't "talked to him sooner about this."
    Try to talk to him yourself. If that doesn't work, perhaps ask a relative closer to his age who is the same gender... a cousin or close friend. You would be surprised at how he will feel once he knows he isn't alone with his "new toy." Good luck!
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    #23

    Jun 9, 2011, 06:37 PM
    It is very normal I am 17 and I started around 3rd just say you can masterbate but not a lot and make shue he washes his hands after:)
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    #24

    Jun 9, 2011, 06:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jake1111 View Post
    it is very normal i am 17 and i started around 3rd just say you can masterbate but not a lot and make shue he washes his hands after:)

    What do you consider to be "a lot" and why does he wash his hands afterward? Just askin'.
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    #25

    Jun 9, 2011, 07:09 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    why does he wash his hands afterward? Just askin'.
    Hello Judy:

    If those little spermies can break into a giant egg, just imagine how much damage they can do to your fingernails.

    excon
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    #26

    Jun 12, 2011, 11:50 AM

    You wash you hands after going potty you surly need to wash your hands after that.
    Kind of nasty not to.
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    #27

    Jun 12, 2011, 12:13 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You wash you hands after going potty you surly need to wash your hands after that.
    Kind of nasty not to.

    We differ on our opinions of "nasty." I find a man (or woman) who jumps out of bed and scrubs up to be rather disconcerting. Maybe this is a different category.
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    #28

    Jun 12, 2011, 12:53 PM

    Well it depends.
    If you are in the bed for the night, no reason to get up and scrub.
    But to walk around touching things with gooey hands after masturbating is a bit gross.
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    #29

    Jun 22, 2011, 10:15 AM
    It's normal for 11 year old boys to masturbate. It is completely normal and you should let your boy do it. A 11 year old boy can masturbate for about 5 times a day. So don't worry :). It decreases the chance of having prostate cancer and heart attacks in the future by 50%. It is a natural thing. 94% of adolescent do it and 6% well... they could lie!!
    Cheers!
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    #30

    Jun 22, 2011, 02:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by mikecool View Post
    it's normal for 11 year old boys to masturbate. It is completely normal and you should let your boy do it. A 11 year old boy can masturbate for about 5 times a day. So don't worry :). It decreases the chance of having prostate cancer and heart attacks in the future by 50%. It is a natural thing. 94% of adolescent do it and 6% well.... they could lie!!!!
    Cheers!

    Would you post your medical findings, the result of your research, on this?

    We take pride in our answers on the medical boards, I have a quasi-medical background, and I would like to see your research.
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    #31

    Jun 22, 2011, 02:47 PM

    Hello Judy:

    I too heard, anecdotally, that a daily ejaculation will help prevent prostate cancer... Since then, I've been a regular practitioner of cancer prevention..

    excon
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    #32

    Jun 24, 2011, 01:47 AM
    You say he's 11? Well u have nothing to worry about. It's normal for the boys of that age to masturbate. I repeat PERFECTLY NORMAL. Just let him do it it's a natural thing, most of the guys of his age do it... you don't have to get worry about things such as: hairy palms, blindness, etc. those aren't true! Masturbation is 100% healthy, and you should let your boy do it! Don't make him feel guilty for that thing..
    Cheers :)
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    #33

    Jun 24, 2011, 07:31 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mikecool View Post
    You say he's 11? well u have nothing to worry about. it's normal for the boys of that age to masturbate. I repeat PERFECTLY NORMAL. Just let him do it it's a natural thing, most of the guys of his age do it... you don't have to get worry about things such as: hairy palms, blindness, etc. those aren't true! masturbation is 100% healthy, and you should let your boy do it! don't make him feel guilty for that thing..
    Cheers :)

    Please post the medical site where you found this info. I'm not saying you are wrong. I would simply like to know where you found masturbation to assist in good health in the ways you stated.
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    Aug 29, 2011, 08:26 AM
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    #35

    Nov 22, 2011, 03:31 AM
    Boys do it when they find out it feels nice to rub and feel the penis and end up finding out about masturbating. If I can ask did you ever feel your genitals, if the answer is yes then why are you asking if its OK for your son to do it. Babies do it when the daiper is removed and little hands find that special spot that is always covered. It called exploring, that is what your son is doing, so let him do it and tell him to do it in private. Lock the door mom and let him explore his body,, Its normal.
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    #36

    Dec 17, 2011, 08:17 PM
    Hey I'm 11 and I feel a urge to but I don't know ifs its OK my mom said it will ruin your penis but I've been fighting the urge for 2 years now but I can't keep on and who should I tell?my docter I want to tell my mom or dad but I feel like they will be mad and dissapointed help me please
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    #37

    Dec 17, 2011, 08:19 PM
    Can someone help me I have the urge and I'm 11 and I don't know if I will ruin my penis by doing this help please thanks
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    #38

    Dec 18, 2011, 05:25 AM
    Hello hey:

    It WON'T ruin you penis.. Whack away, Youngster..

    excon

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