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Yup like what talaniman said just say goodbye, easy. He can't give you the relationship you want and need. So why settle for just being a friend of benefit, if you can do something better. Find a man that can give you all that you wish. Just be careful his going to charm talk you.

[Mommy102808]

Just simply tell him you do not want a "behind closed doors" relationship. If he can't even be seen with you in front of his friends you don't need to bother with him. You do not have to protect his feelings because when he told you to hide did that not bother you? He didn't even consider how that would make you feel he just wanted to protect hisself. It was only a one month relationship, it won't be too hard to get over and move on with your life.

[roxypox]

Yeah, this guy is Not worth your time at ALL, why?

1. you dated for 1 month and than he broke up
2. telling you to hide

Tell him good bye and be done with it. If he wants to be friends expect him to have a hidden agenda!

I would stay away from this one if I were you! When things go bad that fast it only a sign that its... well BAD.

[cindywang0905]

I talked to him and he said we are just friends. Then I was like I don't want to be friends with benefits. He said I have blown it out for proportion

[friend4u178]

what does he mean? Does he want me back or what?

I talked to him and he said we are just friends.

I think he has pretty well answered your question for you , so if your happy to be just friends all good.

If you still have feelings for him and want him back I'd suggest going NC and not seeing him until those feelings are gone.

[cindywang0905]

Yeah I guess so, but then somehow I don't feel respected so I don't want to stay friends. Even though his explanation is, he didn't prepare a sentence for me to introduce me to his friends, so he told me to hide.

[aimee_tt]

Even though his explaination is, he didnt prepare a sentence for me to introduce me to his friends, so he told me to hide.

How hard is it to say, hey this is my friend cindy. If the friend asks how you met. We dated a while ago but decided were better as friends. Why did he need to prepare a sentence? If your friends, your friends!

[cindywang0905]

He broke up with me few months ago and met again few weeks ago. We made out as well. I let someone pass him a birthday gift(not a fancy one), but he remained offline forever on msn and never said thank you. How the hell can he be that insensitive, I now have him in my thought constantly and this is making me exhausted. What should I do? I want him to feel how I feel. Though I know this is so wrong. Shame on me:(

[friend4u178]

It's quite clear that he doesn't want to get back with you and you can't make him want you back.

You made out with him so you let him use you , you probably thought this would work but it obviously doesn't. Until you go complete NC you'll be stuck with all the confusion.

[roxypox]

Yeah NC is what you need to do and you need to get him out of your head!

From your new post it is pretty clear that he doesn't want you back. If he did he would have contacted you. So if you see him again (either turn around and walk the other way or just walk right passed him) cause like I wrote in an earlier post. He isn't worth you time!

[cindywang0905]

Threads merged


I finally decided to go NC with him, blocked and removed him from msn account and blocked his email too. Tomorrow I am going to go call the cellphone provider to block his text or incoming call.

HOWEVER, I kept adding him back on msn and tried to see if he's online or not:rolleyes: then I kept removing then adding back then removed:eek:anyone can tell me how do I stop this?

[JoeCanada76]

Well you have not really gone no contact.

How can you stop doing it. Shut off your computer and go outside. To the mall, to the store, hang out with friends. Resist going on the computer.

COMPLETELY erase the msn contact and email addresses then you will not be able to do anything anymore.

[floaton]

You can stop by stopping. When you're about to do it you have to literally walk away or do something else.
Self discipline is difficult but you HAVE to do it. Don't try. Do.

[woodsmith06]

How long have you been with him? What went wrong?

[talaniman]

Do you need a cyber slap up side your head or what? Just stop doing stupid stuff.