[biswajitask10]

I am fall in love with a girl, her age 25 yr.. We are love very much each other. I also very much love our relation. We are also decide marry each other. Our Love Relation running approx. 1Yr. But Problems. Now I know that, 4 years ago my girl friend was *****ing her other boy friend. Her hymen is broken. I was very must trust her. But now I can not accept their physical relation & her hymen broken issue. She said their physical relation was done just one time. Their relation was broken, because physical relation issue . I now that nowadays She only love with me. I love her very much, but I can't forget their physical relation issue. I want to will be normal our relation. Please help me. What I am doing now.

[Romefalls19]

You have to decide if you can't forget the past. You cannot change it. Is it something in your religion that doesn't allow a relationship after pre-marital sex has happened?

[Devorameira]

You can't change anything that has already happened.

If you can't accept her as she is, you need to break it off with her and let her find someone that is happy with her.

[talaniman]

Leave her alone, until you can grow some more, and appreciate a female for who she is, not what she did years ago before she met you.

Didn't you do dumb stuff when you were young?? Are you a virgin? What gives you the right to judge another human being by such artificial standards??

[artlady]

I understand that in some cultures virginity is very very sacred and it may be difficult for you to understand her not being a virgin.

Are you a virgin?

She could have lied to you but she was honest and you repay her by rejection.

If you can not forget her past and your love is not strong enough to do so than you should break off the engagement and find someone who is more in keeping with your unrealistic standards.