I don't know how to help him
I've become very close friends with a guy named, Kyle. I met him online so we haven't ever met each other (though I have seen pictures, heard his voice, and been on a webcam with him so I KNOW he's not a "rapist"). We have a really strong friendship and I know I can tell him anything, but recently there's one subject Kyle hates talking about: my boyfriend. Every time I bring him up Kyle gets jealous, sad, and sometimes even angry. Last night, Kyle told me that he can't deal with his own emotions because he loves me, but then he hates himself for having feelings for me because I only want to be his friend. There was a time, before I started dating my boyfriend, that I had feelings for Kyle but I didn't want to do anything about it because I only knew him online and he doesn't live near me. I want to help Kyle because he's been there so many times for me, but how can I help him when I'm the root of his problems? I only see him as a friend and I love my boyfriend, but what am I supposed to do? Kyle's always depressed now and always seems to be moody and agitated. Every time I try to help him we always end up fighting, another thing he blames himself for.
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