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Karmalarma · Dec 3, 2006, 11:18 PM

I have been dating a married man I didn't even know he was married at first , I am having trouble getting out of this relationship. I can never call him , he calls me from blocked numbers, I never see him on weekends or holidays , he crys when I try to break it off, he makes up elaborate lies for where he is when he breaks dates. He gets angry when I don't answer my phone. What can I do he says he's going to get a divorce when he gets the money together, I never trust what he says.

JoeCanada76 · Dec 4, 2006, 12:55 AM

Stop contact. You should end it. Period.

moyra · Dec 4, 2006, 01:33 AM

End this now, stop all contact. Change your phone number, a lot of hassle but well worth the peace.

If he comes to your house tell him you will phone the police and get him charged with harassment (or whatever) and that his wife will find out about his affair. You will see that guy run so fast because he will not want his wife finding out!

I think deep in your heart you know that guy is never going to leave his wife, its hard to hear but you have to face reality.

All the best in making the right decision maybe not the easiest but the right one and get this loser out of your life.

talaniman · Dec 4, 2006, 04:48 AM

Your right not to trust him, but I don't see why you just can't tell him to leave you alone. If you threaten him with calling the police or his wife as moyra has said, that should do it. Glad you want no part of married men, they are notorious for lying to get what they want, not to mention big cheaters.

mr.yet · Dec 4, 2006, 04:55 AM

IF he is cheating with you, what make you think he would do that to you!

End it now.

Geoffersonairplane · Dec 4, 2006, 05:22 AM

I ditto all the other posts..

This guy is worth nothing if he does this to his wife..

A serial cheater probably and would do the same to you too.

You have 3 tasks.

1.) End contact.

2.) Change phone number

3.) Find someone much more deserving of you

Skell · Dec 4, 2006, 02:35 PM

Why are you having trouble ending it? It doesn't sound like a relationship anyway.
More just a one sided affair where he gets what he wants on his terms.

Self respect alone should be enough for you to end it, so take the great advice above and do it sooner rather than later!

Good luck!

editb · Dec 6, 2006, 01:59 PM

I also have been dating a married man for a year and a half. Your man sounds very similar to mine. He also tells me lies. He also tells me he loves me. He will always be in some way unavailable. Even if he did leave his wife, could I ever have want I want with him? Of course not. How could I change him? I know what you're going through. It's a dead end. Staying in it is leaving yourself open to constant emotional battery. Your man is abusing you. Good luck in getting out of it. It's like an addiction. I'm trying to beat it

Wildcat21 · Dec 6, 2006, 02:07 PM

This guy is one of the biggest jerks I've heard of. HE CRIES??

He cheated on his wife - he WILL cheat on you.

They WILL lie, cheat, and steal from you JUST to sleep with you.

What don't you get??

This is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO unhealthy for you.

A liar and a cheater! Beautiful!! What a realationship!! Tell your parents about it!!

*98% of them WILL NEVER leave their wives - ever!!