Do some forget that God did indeed divorce Israel for a sinful nature of backsliding?
Jeremiah 3:8 And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also.
God's intentions were to give us new nature. The new man!
Eph 2:15 Having abolished in his flesh the enmity, even the law of commandments contained in ordinances; for to make in himself of twain one new man, so making peace
Eph 4:24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.
Col 3:10 And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him
Remember what witten Word of God that speaks of cutting off the member that sins. The ONE BODY in Christ has many members, which is each of us as one member. If one of us has a sinful nature we are told to cut it off from us.
1 Cr 12:14 For the body is not one member, but many.
And this is exactly what you are saying can happen by the abuse your husband has shown. (all will suffer by his abusiveness)
1 Cr 12:26 And whether one member suffer, all the members suffer with it; or one member be honoured, all the members rejoice with it.
We are told to cut off the member that sins and causes us to suffer, because all can be influenced unto death.
Matthew 5:30 And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.
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