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    boyfriendtrobels Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 23, 2010, 12:16 PM
    I think my boyfriend likes my best friend
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    Hey guys... I really need help my boyfriend well, we are great with each other, but the past while he has really been weird with my best friend. Like I don't even know anymore, and if I ask him what going on he wouldn't say anything, he would just be like wise up, and stop being silly. I understand that they were friends before he meet me, and he used to like her, but I'm just getting really confused because I think he likes her more than he likes me, I really don't know what to do someone please help me x
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    Mar 23, 2010, 12:32 PM

    Well if you've asked him and he's told you to 'stop being silly' and you still don't believe him then your options are limited really.

    What is he doing that is making you feel this way? Are you sure you're just not insecure because they were friends before he met you? He may have liked her in the past, but he's with you isn't he?

    If you can't believe what he is telling you, and you have legit reasons to be feeling this way then maybe it's time to re think the relationship. You don't want this ruining your friendship with your best friend, it's not worth it.
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    Mar 24, 2010, 08:19 PM

    I agree. But on the other side you could just be getting closer to your boyfriend and could just be getting more and more jealous. Step back and look at the situation through non-judgmental eyes and see what you see
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    Mar 25, 2010, 07:09 AM

    How old are you?

    You either trust him or you don't.

    If you trust him, then stop questioning him, as it will alienate him.

    If you don't trust him, then there's a bigger issue at hand and you're going to have to be honest with him.
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    Mar 26, 2010, 08:12 AM

    I think you trust him, and your friend, until you get some more solid facts, and not just feelings.

    Just curious, as you sound like a teen, but were you friends with her when they were together, or was it just a friendship type thing? Does she act jealous because your together? I mean I don't understand what's weird about this.
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    Nov 25, 2010, 11:24 AM
    Just get him into a quite place and talk about it xx

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