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claraaa · Mar 9, 2010, 10:10 PM

Hey
I met a guy on Facebook , I felt that he is the one that I ve been looking for , he is nice and cute , we started talking on the phone for awhile after he got sick , so every time I called him , he said that he can t talk because he has a headache , I don t know what to do , should I call him or should I wait for his call!!

Kitkat22 · Mar 9, 2010, 10:19 PM

Leave him alone. He is obviously
Trying to be nice. He doesn't want to talk to you . If he's interested he'll call you. Good Luck

kp2171 · Mar 9, 2010, 10:50 PM

Originally Posted by claraaa

i felt that he is the one that i ve been looking for

This kind of talk always bothers me... at least when it sounds like a newly found person is The One to Top All Others...

He's a guy. Maybe an interesting guy.

But to make it out to be some end all be all thing, before its even a thing at all, is just setting yourself up for disappointment.

k. done ranting. I'm in a mood and I still don't have thai food (inside joke)...

Well... he is clearly not able to stay engaged in the conversation. So he either doesn't want to be or he is unable.

Which means he is either feigning sickness to get out of talking to you... or he is so anxious about it that he loses control. The first thing is kind of evil... the second is disappointing.

Time to do what was already said... step way back. Leave him alone. Make him chase you.

If he won't chase you, he either doesn't want to or he isn't up to the task and he needs to grow up some before he plays the game.

Sorry... he could very well be all you hope for and a bag of chips... give it some time and some distance. If Nice, Cute, Sick boy doesn't call you, then you know. If he does... well, you still don't know what's up with the headaches...

Kitkat22 · Mar 9, 2010, 10:56 PM

Originally Posted by kp2171

this kind of talk always bothers me... at least when it sounds like a newly found person is The One to Top All Others...

he's a guy. maybe an interesting guy.

but to make it out to be some end all be all thing, before its even a thing at all, is just setting yourself up for disappointment.

k. done ranting. im in a mood and i still dont have thai food (inside joke)...

well... he is clearly not able to stay engaged in the conversation. so he either doesnt want to be or he is unable.

which means he is either feigning sickness to get out of talking to you... or he is so anxious about it that he loses control. the first thing is kind of evil... the second is disappointing.

time to do what was already said... step way back. leave him alone. make him chase you.

if he wont chase you, he either doesnt want to or he isnt up to the task and he needs to grow up some before he plays the game.

sorry... he could very well be all you hope for and a bag of chips... give it some time and some distance. if Nice, Cute, Sick boy doesnt call you, then you know. if he does... well, you still dont know whats up with the headaches...

Good advice again. Now go on and get your thai food. I'm having a peanut butter and banana sandwich. You lucky guy to live in Ireland.
That's one place I will visit before I die. (I hope)

kp2171 · Mar 9, 2010, 11:00 PM

Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Good advice again. Now go on and get your thai food. I'm having a peanut butter and banana sandwich. You lucky guy to live in Ireland.
Thats one place I will visit before I die. (I hope)

I only live there in my ill temper and my DNA.

Haven't been there myself. Meet ja there. Ill be the white guy drinking a beer.

Oops... threadjacking again...

Kitkat22 · Mar 9, 2010, 11:02 PM

Originally Posted by kp2171

i only live there in my ill temper and my DNA.

havent been there myself. meet ja there. ill be the white guy drinking a beer.

Okay... My daughter was there with her College Choir two years ago and also Sctland. Beautiful Photos. Goodnight

talaniman · Mar 10, 2010, 08:13 PM

You leave him alone, and if he doesn't call, take the hint, and move on. Move on any way, as he ain't as into you, as you are him.

Kitkat22 · Mar 10, 2010, 08:22 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

You leave him alone, and if he doesn't call, take the hint, and move on. Move on any way, as he ain't as into you, as you are him.

You are going to get hurt if you insist on calling this guy. What part of , "he's avoiding you", don't you understand? If he cares he'll call if not chalk it up to a learning experience.:rolleyes: