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    waitress1004 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 8, 2010, 06:23 PM
    My boyfriend only want sex about every two months is this normal
    He only uses his hand or sometimes oral but never the inside me is this normal
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    Mar 8, 2010, 11:04 PM
    How old are you and how old is he?
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    Mar 8, 2010, 11:16 PM

    Maybe he is not comfortable with sex. Talk to him about it.
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    Mar 9, 2010, 07:19 AM

    Its normal if you both are 70 years old and you weight 300 lbs.
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    Mar 9, 2010, 07:30 AM
    Maybe he's not ready to be a father and knows that intercourse will get you pregnant.
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    Mar 9, 2010, 07:54 PM

    Is it religion that holds him back? Sex in medical terms is basically the hand, oral, and intercourse. Anything stimulating the genitals to achieve orgasm. I believe that he is ultra conservative and he wants to wait... Or maybe sex is not on his mind.
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    Mar 10, 2010, 05:55 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by lea_09 View Post
    Is it religion that holds him back? Sex in medical terms is basically the hand, oral, and intercourse. Anything stimulating the genitals to achieve orgasm. I believe that he is ultra conservative and he wants to wait...Or maybe sex is not on his mind.
    He's a guy... if sex ISN'T on his mind... he has some big issues.
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    Mar 10, 2010, 09:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    He's a guy....if sex ISN'T on his mind....he has some big issues.
    Hmmm... maybe you should take him and talk to a therapist about this. Having a median always helps.
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    Mar 11, 2010, 02:13 PM

    Perhaps the problem is that he can`t hold an erection long enough, and he is shy talking to you and a doctor about it.
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    Mar 12, 2010, 06:51 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by lea_09 View Post
    Hmmm...maybe you should take him and talk to a therapist about this. Having a median always helps.
    No harm in being proactive. If he has issues they might be acknowledged and treated. And well, if he stonewalls it, then you can see you need to move on and find someone better.

    Lifes too short to waste... you never get that time back.
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    Mar 12, 2010, 07:09 AM
    This link might provide some insight.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...hs-450338.html
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