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Tmergs · Mar 2, 2010, 08:15 PM

Everyone hate because I'm anoying but I have ADHD ands there's nothing I can do about It. I'm afraud it will get to me and il kill myself
A about me if 15 and I live in a town with a population of 500 and only ten of them are kids so don't say join a club or something because there aren't any

Tmergs · Mar 2, 2010, 08:24 PM

Hey kitkat

ohsohappy · Mar 2, 2010, 08:28 PM

Are you on any medications? Elaborate why you think everyone hates you.

Tmergs · Mar 2, 2010, 08:30 PM

I tried medication but it didn't work and they say I'm random and really anoying

Kitkat22 · Mar 2, 2010, 08:33 PM

Hi there! I just wanted to tell you you can find a lot of good answers here. Don't even think about killing yourself! A whole lot of people suffer with ADD and ADHD. It's nothing to be ashamed of. I'll bet there is some things you do a lot better than others!

Do you like music? Do you have a girfriend? What is your favorite thing to do? Look , being annoying is not just a problem for people with ADHD or ADD. I'm annoying a lot! It's okay. Talk to us.

Kitkat22 · Mar 2, 2010, 08:36 PM

Originally Posted by ohsohappy

Are you on any medications? Elaborate why you think everyone hates you.

Sorry ohso didn't mean to jump ahead. I had answered the question but appaerently it didn't go through. Sorry. See I am very annoying.

ohsohappy · Mar 2, 2010, 08:36 PM

Originally Posted by Tmergs

I tried medication but it didn't work and they say I'm random and really anoying

One thing that I have to say to you is this: Never say you can't help it, because it shows that you aren't trying to help yourself. It's difficult, but you should try to put in more effort. There are a LOT of people in this world who have ADHD and can live perfectly normal lives.

Here's some things you can do to help
Drink less pop
Cut down on sugar
Chew gum. When you're trying to focus, Gum can help because it helps you with your need to fidget.

But here's the main thing, don't WORRY about what other people think. People your age are real JERKS. I mean BIG JERKS. They're not all very understanding. I was there just 5 years ago, I know. You do and say what you want to say, and if you want to change anything, make sure you're trying to change for YOU not for anyone else.

ohsohappy · Mar 2, 2010, 08:37 PM

Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Sorry ohso didn't mean to jump ahead. I had answered the question but appaerently it didn't go through. Sorry. See I am very annoying.

Nah you're fine. :)

Tmergs · Mar 2, 2010, 08:38 PM

Thanks for awnsering but I don't have a girl friend because they all say I'm to anoying and I like football but I'm not verry good

ohsohappy · Mar 2, 2010, 08:40 PM

Originally Posted by Tmergs

Thanks for awnsering but I don't have a girl friend because they all say I'm to anoying and I like football but I'm not verry good

Then practice! Don't just say "I'm not good, so why bother" Say "I'm not that good yet, but I'll keep trying" Work towards a goal, that can help keep you focused. :)

Tmergs · Mar 2, 2010, 08:49 PM

Yah it's just I'm not athletic I mean I lift weights and I live in Wisconsin where the weathers terible so I can't really practice during the offseason

Kitkat22 · Mar 2, 2010, 08:49 PM

Originally Posted by Tmergs

Thanks for awnsering but I don't have a girl friend because they all say I'm to anoying and I like football but I'm not verry good

So you're not very good at football, but the thing is you must have tried. So keep on trying new things. Learn to play guitar or paint.

I had never tried skateboarding till last summer! Found out it wasn't for me.. You know what a great past time for me is? I put on my sweats and walk. I take my Ipod and it's my music and me. Try it sweetie.

ohsohappy · Mar 2, 2010, 08:50 PM

Originally Posted by Kitkat22

So you're not very good at football, but the thing is you must ahve tried. So keep on trying new things. Learn to play guitar or paint.

I had never tried skateboarding till last summer! Found out it wasn't for me.. You know what a great past time for me is? I put on my sweats and walk. i take my Ipod and it's my music and me. Try it sweetie.

I really like the guitar idea. :) Excellent

Tmergs · Mar 2, 2010, 08:52 PM

I guess I'm pretty god at trap shooting and I'm a big deer hunter but that only comes around once a year

Kitkat22 · Mar 2, 2010, 08:52 PM

Originally Posted by Tmergs

Yah it's just I'm not athletic I mean i lift weights and I live in Wisconsin where the weathers terible so I can't really practice during the offseason

You are trying and that's what counts.

ohsohappy · Mar 2, 2010, 08:56 PM

Originally Posted by Kitkat22

You are trying and that's what counts.

Yeah! That's the spirit!

Tmergs · Mar 2, 2010, 09:00 PM

Another thing is If you wouldn't mind helping me with this to I like this girl but were really close like brother and sisterbut I'm afraid to tell her how I feel and she says she loves me but I don't think she means it the way I feel

Kitkat22 · Mar 2, 2010, 09:01 PM

Originally Posted by Tmergs

I guess i'm pretty god at trap shooting and I'm a big deer hunter but that only comes around once a year

Do you like to read? My goodness reading can take you to places and adventures you could never dream of! You are fifteen and you shouldn't let a few mean kids make you feel bad about yourself. If you believe in God ask his guidance. He's always there! The people on this forum are going to give you great advice. Now you need to listen to it okay!

Tmergs · Mar 2, 2010, 09:01 PM

It's kind of off subject but yah

ohsohappy · Mar 2, 2010, 09:03 PM

Originally Posted by Tmergs

Another thing is If you wouldn't mind helping me with this to I like this girl but were really close like brother and sisterbut I'm afraid to tell her how i feel and she says she loves me but I dont think she means it the way I feel

Just see where it goes, she sounds interested. :)