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    Oct 6, 2009, 04:53 PM

    Times like these where you realize not everythings about looks which is how it should be. Let her and her "ugly" lad be happy =]
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    Oct 6, 2009, 04:59 PM

    Such he reason we get over and move on.

    But also remember looks is nothing in a relationship,they come and go
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    Oct 6, 2009, 05:03 PM

    No need to concern yourself with her choice of partners anymore. You do not have a say in wo she is with and who is good looking enough for her. Just let her be. If she is happy with that guy then that's good enough.

    If you'd like to feel better about yourself, just think that she couldn't find another guy like yourself, someone "goodlooking", so she just went with what she could find.

    Good luck... and try to move on from this... and her...
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    Oct 6, 2009, 09:33 PM

    Looks/attractiveness are in the eyes of the beholder... Anold saying but very true.

    It is normal to feel SOMETHING when you see an ex with someone new. Your feeling sounds very normal to me...

    A funny quirck of mine is that for some strange reason I always imagine that my BF's exes must be absolutely stunning. The same goes for when I meet someone's partner. I am often shocked because they don't meet my bizarre and high expectations. They are always more normal than I had expected.I suppose this has something to do with the fact that Western Culture is obsessed with physical attractiveness, and this is how worth is often measured.

    Let your ex be happy with her chosen partner... Don't compare or think too much about it.

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