[JudyKayTee]

I find it hard for people to harsh with thier opinions. Statements can be made in a more heartfelt concerned way. Afterall people come here for comfort and advice because they are in need and scared. And to support the man that was trying to help her he did afterall state to get a lawyer. And of course that is the first step and very good advice.

I have no idea what "I find it hard for people to harsh with thier opinions (spelling aside)." The fact remains that the OP read many posts and then decided that the person who gave the wrong advice, someone with no legal background, someone who posted exactly what OP wanted to hear was the advice to follow.

Your criticism is totally unjust - after two posts I would suggest that you don't have a clue how this board works.

If you bother to read the posts before this one I am not the only one who said the OP was getting bad advice. I'm just the only one you decided to criticize.

I have to wonder if you are someone with two screen names, a troll in some other way, just what is going on here.

If OP follows the advice YOU find reliable OP will find herself in deep legal trouble.

[didi768]

Did you divorce yet and if so, how did it all go?

[Cweeres]

I am sort of a child of divorce my parents where in that back and forth arguing. After a few years they each started to have different lives. It easier for a child I think to go through the mess and see there parents be real and not get walked over. My dad ended up passing away before they could divorce because those years they just delt with each other turned him to drinking. I blame my mom and dad everyday but I always no that they were both amazing parents in there own way. Just realize that they don't need to hear the bad things from you and someday they will see that you care and just want peace. Good luck remember to smile everyday and say I'm alive.

[JudyKayTee]

I am sort of a child of divorce my parents where in that back and forth arguing. After a few years they each started to have different lives. It easier for a child I think to go through the mess and see there parents be real and not get walked over. My dad ended up passing away before they could divorce because those years they just delt with each other turned him to drinking. I blame my mom and dad everyday but I always no that they were both amazing parents in there own way. Just realize that they don't need to hear the bad things from you and someday they will see that you care and just want peace. Good luck remember to smile everyday and say I'm alive.

Great advice, but this is from June 2011 and only the people who answered this question will see it.

[Synnen]

Great advice, but this is from June 2011 and only the people who answered this question will see it.

Actually, it's from February 2010.

[JudyKayTee]

Actually, it's from February 2010.

Oh - thanks.