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EmoPrincess · Feb 17, 2010, 06:49 PM

I asked him as well

I don't see how it would make a parent a bad parent. I mean it's all about freedom of expression right

Alty · Feb 17, 2010, 06:58 PM

I waited until I was 30 to get my first tattoo. My parents would have flipped.

I got the tat a day before my mothers funeral. I did mention it to her before she died and I was pleasantly surprised. She said "I wish I was young and healthy, I'd get one on my butt". :)

Tattoos are a form of expression. If you can't get it now then wait until your 18. Just make sure you're happy with the design and the place you put it, it is forever. Also choose an artist who has experience, you don't want someone that only has a year under his/her belt doing this tattoo.

Lastly, we'll be needing a picture when it's done. :)

EmoPrincess · Feb 17, 2010, 07:04 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

I waited until I was 30 to get my first tattoo. My parents would have flipped.

I got the tat a day before my mothers funeral. I did mention it to her before she died and I was pleasantly surprised. She said "I wish I was young and healthy, I'd get one on my butt". :)

Tattoos are a form of expression. If you can't get it now then wait until your 18. Just make sure you're happy with the design and the place you put it, it is forever. Also choose an artist who has experience, you don't want someone that only has a year under his/her belt doing this tattoo.

Lastly, we'll be needing a picture when it's done. :)

I just want something simple, barbed wire over my wrist, with a heart in the center. I need something to cover up that dang sickening scar. And it's supposed to represent me.

EmoPrincess · Feb 17, 2010, 07:05 PM

I'll be sure to post up pictures

Alty · Feb 17, 2010, 07:09 PM

Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I just want something simple, barbed wire over my wrist, with a heart in the center. I need something to cover up that dang sickening scar. And it's supposed to represent me.

Mine is on my ankle, a wavy design in black that meets up on the side. In the middle are two hearts with my parents initials in them. :)

Think over the barbed wire, unless that's something you really like, I'd go for something a bit softer, something you can grow into. That's just me though.

Why not start a thread asking for tat designs? We have a lot of creative people here. :)

EmoPrincess · Feb 17, 2010, 07:13 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Mine is on my ankle, a wavy design in black that meets up on the side. In the middle are two hearts with my parents initials in them. :)

Think over the barbed wire, unless that's something you really like, I'd go for something a bit softer, something you can grow into. That's just me though.

Why not start a thread asking for tat designs? We have a lot of creative people here. :)

I think I should!

And the barbed wire is something I've been thinking about for years, I'm either doing that or rose thorns.

J_9 · Feb 17, 2010, 08:27 PM

Think very hard, as well, about the location. Remember you are only 17 and have a lifetime ahead of you yet. There are many careers that you will not be eligible for if you have a tattoo that is visible and not able to be covered up by clothing. It WILL limit your employment opportunities when you get older.

EmoPrincess · Feb 17, 2010, 08:39 PM

I plan on being a cultural or forensic anthropologist

Fr_Chuck · Feb 17, 2010, 08:40 PM

Just out of interest it is legal in PA for a person under 18 to get a tattoo as long as their parents or their guardian signs for it.

Tattoo Laws Pennsylvania - United States - TattooJoy

J_9 · Feb 17, 2010, 08:42 PM

Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I plan on being a cultural or forensic anthropologist

Keep in mind that plans change. I'm not trying to change your mind, but rather the location of the tattoo. You may not be taken seriously as a scientist with a visible tattoo.

friend4u178 · Feb 17, 2010, 08:44 PM

Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I plan on being a cultural or forensic anthropologist

And if that doesn't come off?. remember the Tattoo won't either Emop :cool:

J's point is very valid and one you should think through very carefully before you commit to something like barb wire , now personally I have absolutely nothing against that myself , BUT if I hired someone with certain attributes lets say , my Boss would pull me over the coals , just the way of the world I'm afraid.

EmoPrincess · Feb 17, 2010, 08:44 PM

Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Just out of interest it is legal in PA for a person under 18 to get a tattoo as long as thier parents or thier guardian signs for it.

Tattoo Laws Pennsylvania - United States - TattooJoy

Thanks!

EmoPrincess · Feb 17, 2010, 08:49 PM

Originally Posted by friend4u178

And if that doesn't come off ?? .......................... remember the Tattoo won't either Emop :cool:

J's point is very valid and one you should think through very carefully before you commit to something like barb wire , now personally I have absolutely nothing against that myself , BUT if I hired someone with certain attributes lets say , my Boss would pull me over the coals , just the way of the world I'm afraid.

I know the effect it will have, But this is something I need to do. Maybe I'll bet the barbed wire on my ankle instead? I have a suicide scar there too

friend4u178 · Feb 17, 2010, 08:50 PM

Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I know the effect it will have, But this is something I need to do. Maybe I'll bet the barbed wire on my ankle instead? I have a suicide scar there too

At least you can put socks on if the occasion called for it ;)

EmoPrincess · Feb 17, 2010, 08:54 PM

Originally Posted by friend4u178

At least you can put socks on if the occasion called for it ;)

True true

But I'm more ticklish there!

Alty · Feb 17, 2010, 09:07 PM

I think the ankle is a great idea. I wear either socks or nylons, it's barely visible with nylons and if it is or someone complains then there's always boots. :)

It's sad that your employment could be effected by a tattoo, but that's the way it is. It shouldn't be but many people still view tattoos ans only things that sailors and hookers have, that was the way my mother-in-law felt and she was not happy when she saw my tat.

If you put it somewhere that's easily covered then you don't have to fear that it will effect your dreams in the future. I'd hate for you to not get the job you dream of all because of a tattoo.

Something to think about. :)

AK lawyer · Feb 18, 2010, 12:18 AM

Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

I'll join in on "what?" How do you see CPS involved if her mother goes in with her and she's 17?

I suppose I shoulld have used a "sarcasm" emote. Just couldn't find one.

hheath541 · Feb 18, 2010, 01:29 AM

Originally Posted by AK lawyer

I suppose I shoulld have used a "sarcasm" emote. Just couldn't find one.

The sarcasm came through loud and clear. It was tinged with something else, though, too. Bitterness or anger or distaste. I'm not sure.

What we can't understand is why in the world you would feel the need to tell her that she would get taken away form her parents for getting a tattoo, even if you were being sarcastic.

shazamataz · Feb 18, 2010, 05:13 AM

Emop, maybe you could compromise and get a tattoo somewhere hidden at first and then decide if you still want the barbed wire later?

I just know a few people who really regretted theirs after they got them.
Not because they didn't like them but because they were actually not allowed to go into some restaurants and clubs because they had tattoos showing.

I don't have a problem with them at all (I have 2 myself) but I'd just hate for you to regret it later in life when someone tries to whisk you away for a romantic evening in a beautiful restaurant and you are not allowed in.

Aurora_Bell · Feb 18, 2010, 07:03 AM

Oops I guess I should have written that tattoo comment here, oh well silly me.
I got my first tattoo when I was 15. Did not have my parents permission, luckily they didn't see it until I was 17, and my mom didn't freak. Was it the most responsible thing to do? no. Did that make my parents bad parents? no. Do I regret what I chose? Yes. Well I guess it's not that bad it's kind of cute in it's getto -fabulous way ;) Maybe I should get it touched up.
I also hate that certain jobs frown upon self expression. Although I guess I would be intimidated if I were in the bank trying to get a loan and it was from a guy who had a full face tattoo!
But yours sounds nice. I like the rose thorn idea, but maybe you could think of somewhere not noticeable UNTIL you get your dream job and know that it's okay to express yourself that way. Just a thought. I know when I was 15 I also got facial piercings. I now have holes in my face. A lot of people don't even notice them, but I do. I also don't think my boss would like his staff to have lip and eye brow rings while dealing with his clients. So when I was out looking for my career, I knew I needed to take those things off my face to be taken seriosuly, and like an adult. I know that I wouldn't have the job I have now if I had visibal tattoos or peircings. And even some fast food restaurants like Tim Hortons for one, makes you wear band aids to cover up your tattoo's while at work. I think that looks nasty, and I would rather see some tatto of a naked chick then a dirty old band aid!