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    Feb 2, 2010, 05:44 PM
    I made the silly common mistake of...
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    My boyfriend and I have just split. I have made the common, silly mistake of textin constantly. Don't get me wrong he replies and has tried to call me a couple of times but I know I'm making him angry and pushing him further away an ruinin any chance of getting him back. It's not like we fell out of love, we still love each other very deeply, we had a daft argument and while he apologised, I was too stubborn and didn't. Could kick myself now, my question is, how long do I give him with no contact and what, apart from that, should be my next step? Thanks x
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    Feb 2, 2010, 06:27 PM

    Why did you guys breakup? (aka what was the disagreement?_
    Who initiated the breakup?
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    Feb 2, 2010, 07:12 PM

    No contact is to get over them, you go on and find someone new and limit your phone usage
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    Feb 2, 2010, 07:17 PM

    In my opinion since you still clearly have open commuinication, you apologize if you are sorry. Then you give him some space and see if he contacts you again. If not you leave well enough alone and move on. No one can tell you how long to take, he will either come back or you will be ready to move on. However, if his request is NC, grant that wish and apologize and leave him be.
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    Feb 3, 2010, 11:41 AM

    Apologise and see if he wants to try again. If not... its over, walk away.
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    Feb 3, 2010, 11:45 AM

    If he wants you to come and get your things I think he is quite serious about the split.

    It seems his feelings have changed and going no contact should be what you do to heal from the breakup.
    It's not a tool to get someone back.
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